Thank you all. I am having some trouble getting used to these new bb's--must be getting old, lol!

I have so much good advice here; now i just have to put it into action!

Ever, thanks for your perspective as an ex-MLCer. I couldn't find your thread over here. Could you give me a link?

After that last convo with H, things actually seem easier btw us. Every time we get some of our emotions out, but in a (generally) calm way, it seems like we are able to be closer. I don't mean in any sort of romantic way, but there is a sense of ease there.

Today at DD's therapy session the T talked to both of us (me and D), and DD and I discussed some things about her feelings. I think it was very productive. I am going to bring S5 in in two weeks, and the T would like to talk to him, too. She thinks that a lot of his clinginess and fearfulness is due to the same thing as it is with D10--Daddy left abruptly one day and never came back, and they are afraid the same will happen to me.

Things are coming along for me. I am dealing with my anger and sadnes and grief, and releasing it. It is hard, but I will get through it.

Thank you all so much,
N

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