Okay that was a cr*ppy femininity mantra because a mantra is supposed to be something that you are affirming and why would I want to affirm myself for being "utterly defenseless" or "hyper" anything? So I shall amend it to read "I am soft, bouncy, cuddly, pettable, remarkably sexually responsive and vulnerable when not in hiding.". The last bit should remind me not to hide because it's okay to be vulnerable.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
