Oh come on Corri. You forgot to add that your inner gremlin is also satisfied that I'm getting a taste of the LD side, too. I *know* you well enough to know that's true! lol
I looooooooove the shutup and kiss me line. That is so good! Would work wonders. I hate to take the lead (sexually) in any way and I really need him to work on that side of himself, but this would work. Of course, there is the little problem that when he starts talking this way I am way turned off and then to tell him to kiss me is to invite something that I'm not really prepared for yet, but the alternative (going to bed without sex) is not really what I want either. As you can see, I'm not really all that LD but I am definitely the more LD partner in the M now. Tease him....well, he wouldn't keep pursuing me. He'd just stop and be pissed off. Our whole entire marriage is based on me being ridiculously available and responsive so he can't wrap his mind around the fact that he may have to work at it a little. You are right in that I am not pissy or resentful of this change, but neither am I happy about it. I do not like being physically unresponsive but I do like that he's having to pursue me. You have to remember that he did not pursue me our entire courtship or marriage. I was the first to ask him on a date, the first to say ILY, the first to mention marriage...you get the disgusting picture. I'm appalled at myself, all these years later, but it just goes to show ya that people aren't fully "cooked"..it evolves over time.
GEL, Yes I've asked him to not do this but he persists. I don't know what else to do except holler at him (this always gets his attention) but I really do not want to do this.
And actually I'm more concerned with learning how to deal with myself in this new state than I am at dealing with babytalk in bed. I don't want to make it seem that I'm completely focused on MrH, I'm not. I was just pointing out that, in light of my body's changin, I'm having an even more difficult time with his tentative, halting, timid, unsure initiations.
