I'm not telling you anything you don't already know... just kind of talking out loud here...
I've decided that, in order to keep my LD at bay, I look at sex and feeling sexy, and flirting and all those other HD type behaviors, as a discipline. Not so disciplined that it isn't fun, mind you... but there are times when I could get lazy and head back to LD land simply because my SO doesn't feel like initiating.
Of course I could get all pissy about this (not that you are), or I can do any number of things not quite pleasant... but I decided that when he gets that way (sorta p/a-ish himself)... I tease the hell out of him. Kind of like a cat playing with a mouse. Over the course of playing, my internal desire begins to kick in... and eventually, if I tease him so much... he does the whole natural male thing I so adore.
The comments Mr. HP is throwing out to you, in that VOICE... ewh. My condolencses. (HD? Spelling?) Maybe throw out to him... "honey, shut up and kiss me."
This is an interesting flip flop, though. I'm sorry you are going thru it, but I have to say a little gremlin in me is sort of satisfied on your behalf that Mr. HP is finally experiencing what it feels like. Don't like the anger part of his reaction... tsk, tsk. That can KILL desire for a very long time. Tell him to stop it.
Glad to see you round these parts. You'll be fine. (Of course you will, you know that.
