Hi Mermaid, [quote=mermaid]He actually said the girls are lucky to have me and him. quote]
Oh yeah, my H still claims he is a better father than he ever was before and even says he is soooo proud of that. The funny thing is...I can't argue with that very much. When he was home, he barely spent anytime with D9 unless we were doing something as a family and even when we did that, he always made me feel like it was killing him to be with us. Now that he's away, he spends more quality time with D9 when he comes to visit her.
So, while I agree with him that he is a better father than he was before in terms of the quality time he spends with D9, it will NEVER make up for him being gone.