You know...if he were to tell me that, then I would know one way or the other. But he won't tell me anything. Every answer I get is "I don't know." Do you have a magical way to get into his head to find out or to be a fly on the way when he finally opens up about it? Not trying to be mean but I don't know these things until he tells me. For all I know, he could have spilled the beans to you and you are sitting here as the all knowing, all powerful Ben.....
The difference is, I never hurt him on purpose. She continues to do that. My only thought is that he continues to put up with it because he doesn't have anywhere else to go. You don't have a place for him to crash and he doesn't want to come home and then decided that he doesn't want to be there again. I don't know.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
