It's funny, I was just thinking about H's depression this morning. The fight we had on Sunday revealed some of his fears and regrets however it was also a reflection that he hasn't learned anything about "why" he is doing what he is doing...because of his depression. When I was telling him what I was angry about, I told him that it's clear he was not happy, but that wasn't my fault and he has to take responsibility for his own happiness. He hasn't learned how to do this yet.
