[quote=jmad4 I aksed my friends and they say treat her bad because she is attractedto bad boys? any suggestions?[/quote]
For starters I wouldnt listen to your friends. You want to build a solid M, acting like a jerk isn't going to build the kind of M you want for life. She is prob still confused and wanted to "live it up", that's why she hanged around loosers who were as confused as her.

She needs a level headed loving H, which is what I think you want to be for her. My advice is to not play any more games, that kind of attitude brough nothing but dissention and arguments in my M in the past. I'm sure the move to Japan also has her a little rattled, so try to be supportive when she freaks out about that.


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