Thanks Kristy, and that is dead on young lady. The expectations slid right back in on me and were exactly why I had a miserable weekend. The grasshopper has come a long way ;\) and thanks for checking in.

Ian

M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09