My W left me for 10 months after and A she had. She moved in with two guys and a girl and took my S with her there was lots of alchol and drugs involved on her part. The people she was with were pretty much scum. So one guy got thrown in the brig for a whole bunch of stuff, the girl moved back to texas than the other guy that was there bounced a check so my W had no place to go she turned to me and I took her in. The last guy also got thrown in jail for writing bad checks. Things have been kinda rough I do get told I love you by my W we have ML twice. We are currently seperated do to my mlitary obligations. But we had moved into a house together. Over christmas I had went home and had found a love letter to the guy in the brig. I was very upset. W said that it only was a passing tought and it went on for about three weeks nothing physical. She told me she wanted me. (the letter still gets to me) I was hoping W would want to jump on me like when we first got married but that is not the case, she likes her distance and she seems to suck up to me when she needs money. I don't know what to do I need help to make this work. She has left our house and is currently back in DE with her family to escape the element she was hanging around. Im trying what should I do? I aksed my friends and they say treat her bad because she is attractedto bad boys? any suggestions?