Thank you for your welcome too! Yes I am a lot calmer now,tho still hurt a little, I suppose that he stalls in responding to me when I ask for help over the house we still jointly own ,as he was before so keen to help and loved being useful. That is mainly what I mean by him being quite withdrawn.He also is not using the IM which he used to do before.. So I feel another avenue closed, tho I must admit I also withdrew a bit too, from that if I saw he was on. The last time, after we met, he had said he would be in touch very soon, come over, big hug,kiss etc..This last time after I spoke re OW he did not say anything at all about seeing me again when he left and no hug or acknowledgement from him.. So is a difference, not just in my mind.
I have a good life so cannot complain.. friend over on Wednesday, and another for sleep over and girlie time on Friday. Then seeing New Guy on Saturday PM and for walk on Sunday with group.
We are climbing Ben Lomond.. Which is on the "bonnie,bonnie banks" of the Loch. Great!!
