I just don't get it!! My H left a month ago and has been seeing a women who left her H the same day he left me. He tells people they are just talking. Then he spends the weekend with her after leaving 2weeks before. He denys anything went on before he left. LIE. Now I am told they are dating. He hasn't told me, I just see and hear. He is such a chicken!ughhhh. I however am just trying to be the sweet, kind women he fell in love with. I am trying to kill him with kindness. I invited him over for dinner when he dropped the kids off yesterday and he said yes he would eat with us. I thought that if this women knew, she might have something to say. I bet he never told her! We never talk about the future of Divorce, he chooses not to talk about it I guess. He has always been a happy person to be around, and now, whenever he comes around to get kids he always seems down. Does the fact that I pray before he comes over for God to put pressure on him to reconcile have an effect! I hope so. This OW's personality is so unlike someone he would like. I just don't get it. She has no personality what so ever and no one likes her. I didn't even get a good impression the first time I met her years ago. He is 33 years old and we were in the process of selling our home and building a new one and all of a sudden he says he hasn't been happy for a long time and that we are different people now. Could this possible be a MLC? The bad thing about this is everyone he knows has lost respect for him since he left his 2 young children, and what was a great marriage, he had absolutly no responsiblities at home other than work to pay bills. It hurts so bad to see him with this other women so soon after he left me. How is he supposed to find out what love and happiness is when he finds someone on the rebound. He works with her every day which doesn't help matters for us. I am hoping that by being my nice, sweet self that I have always been will make him see what he saw in the begining. How can I handle this OW though, bad thing is she lives down the street and he lives where I have to go by there everyday. I can't get away from them. It is so painful. My H has always been a BIG flirt with the ladies and I hope that this new girl will not likely be okay with that matter. Another thing, while he was over eating dinner my S6 asked him when was he coming home to stay at night and he replied "I don't know buddy". Does he really not know? Just don't get him at all anymore. I really want him to come begging me back someday so I can say "I'm not sure about that". Sorry this is so long, I am just so depressed by his actions.
