I wonder sometimes. When I call my husband for something a lot of times he will say hello how you doing? Today he called looking for my son. When I answered he said hi how you doing? I said ok and gave phone to my son. But, what makes me wonder is that when we meet face to face he doesn't speak or smile at me. What is your opinions of this?
I don't know your sitch well, but maybe it is due to some guilt. It would be easier on the phone to talk to someone, but when face to face, you can't look at the person.
What I think you should do. Maybe you have or have not done already, is to act AS IF.
If he is actually talking to you on the phone, then if you see him and he ignores you, then pretend you don't care or don't noticed, and act all upbeat and happy and excited about something you want to share with him and whatever response you get from him, don't let it get you down. Maybe he will be rude, maybe he will ignore, or maybe he will be interested. Who knows. The main thing is to not let him know he is bringing you down- because he is NOT going to bring you down any more!!!! Right?!? He does not control your life and your happiness! That is between you and your savior!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
