I haven't post here for a while. And would appreciate if anyone can give me some insight. I snooped last week and found out about OW. Evidently they have been together more than six months prior to the bomb. And now have been over a year. Why can't he just be honest about it in the first place when he dropped the bomb. Our divorce will be final in 11 days, would anyone even recommend that I confront him about ow since his relationship with ow has been a secret for so long? He continues to not talk to me eventhough we live under the same roof. Why no communication? Is it because he has too much to hide?