- basically that because SL was so bad before he left he thinks he's forgotten what it can be like so isn't that bothered about it. Is this just a man thing?? because SL was bad for me too but I can remember in graphic detail things from when SL was great - he says he can't. How can he not remember how lovely it used to be just to kiss.
Yup, he's afraid of failure. And my H also didn't or couldnt' remember when he was happy w/me in that aspect.
I can see that your patience has paid off, he is opening up to you and actually told you why he's not ready. Keep up the good job, it's a long journey.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
