Great advice BND. I hope you don't mind but I reposted from your thread. There were four posts that spoke to me in volumes.
Nicola,
If you get a chance stop by my thread and read them, they really helped me when I needed it the most. Thanks BND!!!
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.