I read your latest post and it sounds like you have more than just signs to deal with.
Do you suppose she is worried that things will be back to the way it was without the improvements if you do reconcile?
I was more affectionate with my H when I thought he was seeing OW too. Mainly because I needed reassurance he still found me desirable and I wanted to think he would think of me no matter what he was doing with OW.
