I have been refreshing the page every couple of minutes in hopes of getting some insights.
Realizing the damage I have done, I wish I could speak to ppl like your WAH and tell them first hand what they are out to lose. It took me over a year and a pregnancy to get it, so don't lose heart. He will eventually see the light. For his sake I hope you still want him when he does.
Thank you for your suggestion, I have a copy of DR and have read it. But I am going to reread.