Sometimes, when BB sees someone at the store who is overweight, I ask her if being heavy nullifies one's sex drive. I tell her big people need luv'n too.
She thinks fat somehow lowers almost everyones SD. IE, if you are fat, you don't have a sex drive, even if one spouse is over weight and the other spouse is normal weight. Just my observation of one, lower drive spouse's way of thinking.
realize that your partner's desire or lack thereof does not do a d*mn thing to change your actual objective level of attractiveness in terms of such things as physical appearance or money-making ability. Jenny, how many arguments involve money?
Yes the HD person probally still wants sex but the LD partner usually is less inclined to feel sexual when there isn't enough money to go around or enough to pay for a lifestyle the LD person wants to live.
I think the healthy way to think about these issues is to simply realize that your partner's desire or lack thereof does not do a d*mn thing to change your actual objective level of attractiveness in terms of such things as physical appearance or money-making ability. Here here. I agree.
I am just as attractive as I act/conduct myself, no matter what BB tells me.
