Had to laugh. Attraction is a funny thing isn't it? FWIW - I knew a young woman who was a very serious athlete and bought some fake ones. She only had them make into B's, very modest. They looked great, her clothes fit better and she just blossomed. She was already drop dead gorgeous, a high school cheerleader etc... Before the implants all the neighbor guys would call each other on the phone and say "S is washing her car in her bikini today." After the surgery I think most didn't even realize she had it. They still looked forward to car washing on the weekends.
Your points about the health risks are well taken. Your points about the reality of having to replace them and even additional unforseen cosmetic and "feel" issues are too. The things that have kept me from it are (a)$$, (b)time, (c)lack of support from H, (c)my love of breastfeeding my babies, I wouldn't do it until I was sure I was done with that and (d)the need to more thorougly research the health risks and decide if it is really worth it to me. Those are in no particular order as one reason can trump the other on any given day. Part of my interest in it is a semi-wicked desire to see what H would do if I were sporting a major rack. Would he still be avoidant? Would he quit seeing me as the kind of woman you would buy the "seasonal" sweater for - you know the cardigans with embroidered hearts for Valentines Day, bunnies for Easter etc... I kid you not, H has looked at these and then peered at me to see if I showed any interest. I don't think that if I had some home improvements made I would feel the need to display them to everyone on the street but I know watcha mean about that.
