My bf is drop-dead movie star gorgeous, but when we are estranged, I also would rather be somewhere else.
Looks don't matter as much as confidence AND the all important Personal Hygiene. The guy I sometime refer to with whom I was intimate off and on for over 22 years was a big guy-- probably 225 or more (at about 5'11"), but he was fastidious in the hygiene department (ALWAYS showering immediately before intimacy... although he didn't particularly want me to ).
I'm thinking about "Sex in the City" when Charlotte married that chubby bald Jewish lawyer, but he absolutely adored her. THAT was sexy! Just as sexy as Samantha's boy-toy (who ALSO adored her).
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