Concerned, Good Advice.. I actually read the book a couple of years ago but for some reason can't remember how to put anything in practice but panic management right now. YIKES!
I do have an update: OW filed for divorce so I figured we were probably next. That way THEY could be together! HOWEVER, my H is in severe depression now because he and OW are "supposedly" cutting ties. My belief is that'll last about 4 hours! H also has the nerve to look at me and tell ME that I better be serious about working on our R. ummm... I think you have it backwards buddy - YOU need to be serious!!