You are both right.. I need to try to detach. It's hard to do isn't it? Gosh..I never thought I would be the one who would be co-dependent but you are right that's what I AM being!! I have always been super independent in the rest of my life and just need to start making decisions based on my and my D's best interest. I have no fears of being by myself financially - that isn't an issue. It's just that emotional neediness that just makes you feel like sh*t!
H's been calling and e-mailing me much more this week. I don't usually call him unless it's about D or something like that. H is the one piling on the ILU's and initiating everything. It is so ridiculous... I'm sure saying the sames things to both OW and me.. Isn't this a fun game?
