LO, Just think about yourself. You do not deserve to be treated like a doormat. You need to worry about yourself necause all you are doing by the ML and ILU's is hurting yourself. You seem afraid to let go and take care of your own needs because you are still codependant.
Let Go.
You are ML and telling him that you Love him because you are scared. You need to deal with your fears of being alone befre you can every be happy with anyone.
My old qoute that I was using says it all....
It is not easy to find happyness in yourself however it is impossible to find it in anyone else. Not word for word but I hope you get the point.
Back off and detatch. Find yourself and be happy with yourself.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
