I have to think about this one. I have about a hour ride home to do just that and then I will post something tonight. Of course you will probably get some advise by then.

What I can tell you to do is emotionall detatch from him for your own sanity. Don't let what he says or does affect your emotions. Do not have any expectations either. They are killers.

I will see if I can come up with anything that you can try...


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