I'm having a really tough day today. My H will not give up OW. He is having his cake and eating it, too....living at home, ML to me, hanging out and acting like a family but, having OW on the side. They are constantly texting each other their ILU's (I've looked on the phone) and meeting a few times a week "on the sly". He's telling me he hasn't made up his mind what he wants to do.

I just feel so sad, used and hopeless... He will never make a decision while life is so comfortable. I don't know how much more of this I can take