HELP ! Wondering if you could provide some insight for me … We are entering year 3 of this mess and are separated. I cannot post all of the down and dirty but you can look me up to get an idea.
From reading a lot of the resources here it seems that H is stuck in the tunnel and exhibiting signs of Replay, Withdrawal and Depression. Seems to have been this way for sometime as we had a few touch and goes this summer which actually offered me that elusive HOPE. All to end up with even worse behavior (extremely secretive, much more hostile and distanced, not really a person that I like or enjoy being around most of the time, and projecting).
When someone is like this, do they come out? Is it worth waiting for ? I am tired and worn from this battle and trying to figure out how to recharge my batteries if I plan to stay in this game …
Are there any success stories out there of people who stood for 3-4 years and things did work out?
