before you mention ADD that's what I was thinking, how are you doing on them? my H is ADHD, isnt' taking anything, I do know that meds help a whole lot though. Living w/an ADD/ADHD is pretty hard if the spouse doesn't know about the condition, I know my M suffered because neither of us knew he had it, so I would get horribly frustrated. Even now that I know and have researched and read lots it is still hard. Have you help him understand ADD? could you guys read "delivered from distraction" together.
Huge congrats on breaking it off w/the EA guy, please stay away and let him figure himself out, a person who has any kind of A has issues to deal with, and you have enough on your your own to deal w/his.
As far as the stories you told your H in which you cry, not many men would conmiserate, a woman would've had, not many man. To most men, like my H, tears mean either manipulation or dissapointment on their men or hysterics.
Glad to hear you continue to see a T. It isn't about the mail, it is about him, something is eating at him and he either needs a T or time on his own, he's got huge anger issues and isnt' ready to give you anything right now. That doesn't mean you can't continue to DB your butt off.
Would he see a C or T? does he acknowledge he has issues at all?
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
