No, I dont' think so. Did it hurt when your H cheated on you? If yes, why are you doing this same thing by having an EA? haven't you learned anything? Using your "friend" as a bandaid just complicates him and destroys another M. If your friend has a spine he will be a man to his wife and stop messing w/you and you should know better.
Your H seems to still be in MLC stage, in which everything is your fault and he's just fine. How long that will last? how long can you wait in that awful limbo? who knows, could be a few months 'til he realizes the damage he is causing.
You need to talk to a T instead of having an EA, your H hasn't grown up yet. Find yourself again, you dont' need your H to be whole.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
