Yes RB...and what exactly do you want me to change?
I'm not going to start a religious war with you here....
but is that the main point you are pushing? God?
You know .... YOU (meaning the person trying to fix things or change themselves....) have to be willing to do some of that work...
What exactly do you think I need to change now?
WHAT THE HELL IS THIS?!
Emily you have never changed a damn thing.
We just gave you a few new ideas along the way and perhaps a little tiny of bit of belief in yourself and THAT is exactly why you need go read your old threads.
NOT because you're in the same place, but because your HEAD IS, where Kevin's treatment of you is concerned.
There is nothing you do NOT need to change, Emily.
And you could start with not snapping at RB for telling you the truth.
Everyone means the same thing kml put so eloquently.
Change YOURSELF.
Make the real decision and stop sliding back into the same comfortable dysfunction.
Your girls are going to be in this very same place one day if you don't break the cycle NOW.