Thanks for the rational advice kml .... these are things I can do.... These are things for ME to do....
I am working on becoming independant from Kevin... really I am. I've done a lot of self-improvement in the past year.... I owe a lot of that to this site I feel...
He e-mailed me today and said that if I file for divorce he won't sign it, he doesn't want to be divorced, etc etc etc.... He keeps me in this loop ...and I am just sick of it. I want a divorce....but I can't figure out how to make myself just proceed with the divorce, when I remember how it felt when I didn't want it and he did.
My old threads yes have a lot of good advice...but I am in a totally different position....I am not panicking because he doesn't want to be with me.... I am alright with being alone....
Now then..
Quote: - friends - you need healthy friends, not just guys who are hoping you're available. Women friends, older mentors, people who share common interests. Figure out how to go about this and get started. I agree... It's just a tough age to have friends when you're a single mother I suppose. I have a few close friends...but my bestfriend just got a boyfriend and when that happens I get left out of the picture.....so...... all my other friends are busy working their tails off or in college...
