It all blew up already! Not sure what really happened. OW has an ultrasound on the 29th and H informed me that he would be leaving by then.... then he decided that he was leaving tonight.... well only to stay across town with his grandmother. I'm not sure what happened. I know that his constantly e-mailing her backforth (more than just contact about the upcoming baby) really bothered me... but it's a healing process... I am going to work on the counciling thing if only for myself.... as he is out of the picture as of now... or so it seems.
He may be back tonight..he said he didn't know... What a mess......