wow Emily! your H is back! come over to piecing. Your sitch is very hard, because he now will have to have contact w/the ow, and the above posts are right, you will have to accept this sitch if you have decided to forgive your H. It is now a package deal, either you take it all or leave it. WIsh pregnantandDBing was here, she was a great lady who also took back her H after he left her prego and got ow prego. It is possible to build an M after such thing, so dont' loose heart, remind yourself why you wanted your H back. All the best to you gal.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.