Sorry to hear about your sitch and would love to hear more.

But from what little you have posted it sounds like you two might need to seek professional help in oder to accept the reality of your sitch. It sounds like you want to keep your H and I can not even fathom having to go through what you are dealing with. However, if you want it to work you will have to accept the circumstances that came out of his affair and forgive him for them. You will have to realize and deal with the fact that he now has a kid with the OW..I do not really have anymore advice other than the suggestion of seeking some form of counsler to help you guys through this one.

Just my 2 cents.

Again sorry to hear about your sitch,
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Ben 32
STBXW 29
3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months)
Status: Fighting for the Kids.

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