Quote: I've always wondered among women why they tend to blame the other woman not the guy for these kinds of things. I mean, the man does have a functioning brain and choices to make. If he is cheating and lying - that is about him as much as her.
Hmmmm. Generally, my current take on the matter is that it is totally irrational and counter-productive of anything. However, I think it happens that way because you feel possessive towards "your man". Also, at least in my case, there was a certain amount of maternal instinct involved as in "Don't be messin' with my babies' Daddy or I'm gonna slap you upside the head. You hear me, Girl?".
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
