On the radio this am I heard a story about a young woman whose best friend was having an affair with her boyfriend. The two ladies then went skydiving together - the one seeing the guy on the side didn't make it back. Chick #1 is now in jail. Whew - harsh. I've always wondered among women why they tend to blame the other woman not the guy for these kinds of things. I mean, the man does have a functioning brain and choices to make. If he is cheating and lying - that is about him as much as her.