Lil, What I also see happening here is that you were looking to feel apreciated by him ( and I'm guessing a simple thank you would have done the trick), but your bf is unable to give that to you. I know this happens between me and my H; it's hard for him to acknowledge my contributions; I think it's because it produces guilt in him, like he needs to do something more for me.
Anyway, you done good; now go take care of yourself. Stay away from too many xanax ( just a poor joke).