Apologies for butting in and continuing the hijack, but I had a thought about your BF's response. Perhaps your reminders and encouragement to go to the meeting made it (in his mind) YOUR idea. Even though you went out of your way to try to explain that you thought of it being all about him, he still had it ingrained in his mind as your idea. Then when he had a good time and you expressed happiness, no matter how well worded, all he heard was "I told you so!" Do you see what I mean? Granted, that is a very immature reaction and not what you intended, but I'll admit I sometimes have to surpress feeling that way at times, and am not always successful. I'll admit if somebody suggests I go do something, and I have a great time, I will get a little annoyed if they later say "I KNEW you would like it." I don't know why I feel that way. In fact, just writing about this I have discovered something I need to change about myself.
Please quash any and all thoughts of suicide. There are far too many people that would truly miss having you around.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
