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you could always suggest you try to see if they'll let you take it on the plane so you can use it together on your vacation!!!!!!!!!!



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Julie, LOVED the VS story.
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That's awesome Julie! They have Gap Kids right - maybe a VS Kids...God help us!


Actually, I thought that's what "PINK" was...!
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you could always suggest you try to see if they'll let you take it on the plane so you can use it together on your vacation!!!!!!!!!!


Hmmm, did you mean in the checked luggage... or in the carry-on?


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Shake it off, Ian. I am sure that your W will not bring it up again. She was embarrased and she knows that you were trying to do something nice. She might just say something about the nice comforter/sheet set instead.
Heck, this maybe something that you'll look back at in the future and laugh.

And you went bowling after you had drinks? Did you knock any pins down? Or did you use the bumpers?


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Ian - hope today goes well for you. Let us know how you made out. Thinking of you man!


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Ian - hope today goes well for you. Let us know how you made out.



Ian... Did you and your wife make out again ?

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Yeah, well I'm thinking of more than you guys making out.


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Nope Jules, overall not a good day for me. W is back behind her wall a little. I am sure it is because she is embarrased, but it still hurts and is hard to deal with. I am not in the mood right now for a serious post so I am going to leave it at that.

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sorry Ian... didn't mean to be flip.

Keep doing what you're doing. You know this is a part of it. She'll come back around. Just focus a little extra on yourself for a few days. I bet it's easy to forget how to do that when things are going so well... you start to forget about your own GAL.


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Yes you do. I am leaving for Phoenix on Wednesday and won't be home until Sunday afternoon, I think this time apart may be good right now.

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Ya know Ian, there is another route you could take.


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and that would be?????


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