Divorcebusting.com | Contact

Register Log In

Divorcebusting.com Forums Open Forums Piecing Our Marriage Back Together Again Working towards home

Print Thread

Page 5 of 13

1

2

3

4

5

6

7

…

12

13

Re: Strange feelings sofaraway #906690 01/25/07 11:42 AM
Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 6,729 colorado I inspiredjulie Member
inspiredjulie Member I Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 6,729 colorado	maybe try and hit a bball game... good movies... that's all I've got. I matter. Me 32 xH 33 D7, D5 BOMB 9/27/06 D final 4/3/08

Re: Strange feelings inspiredjulie #906691 01/25/07 12:49 PM
Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 10,147 Memphis, TN S sofaraway OP Member
OP sofaraway Member S Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 10,147 Memphis, TN	Jules, great suggestion... I just looked it up and the Spurs are playing the Suns the night of February 1st. I'm gonna get my boss to expense th egame which will make it twice as good. I am actually a huge Suns fan, I went to college at Arizona State so have been a Suns fan for years. They are the only non New York team that I follow Ian Thanks for the suggestion..... Ian M- 48 XW- mentally 17 KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28 Married- 17 years Divorce final- 10/16/09

Re: Strange feelings sofaraway #906692 01/25/07 01:38 PM
Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 6,729 colorado I inspiredjulie Member
inspiredjulie Member I Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 6,729 colorado	niiiice... that sounds like a great time. maybe you can catch a college game while you're there, too at your alma mater... I matter. Me 32 xH 33 D7, D5 BOMB 9/27/06 D final 4/3/08

Re: Strange feelings sofaraway #906693 01/25/07 02:13 PM
Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 3,514 Central Ohio Rob1231 Member
Rob1231 Member Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 3,514 Central Ohio	Hey Ian, While you're thinking of ways to make that trip a positive thing for you, think about how it may be good for W as well. You want her to feel comfortable having space and time for herself, without ol' Ian hovering and worrying about too much time spent apart. So adapt an attitude that says this brief time apart is good for both of you, and then show that attitude to W with a big smile. OK? Rob Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!

Re: Strange feelings Rob1231 #906694 01/25/07 03:02 PM
Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 2,407 FL Tiara Boy (CM) Member
Tiara Boy (CM) Member Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 2,407 FL	Ian, You can drop her off at Disney and tell her she wanted her space. You and I can head out on the town!! I'm so happy to see you hear on this board. You've worked so hard at it and the shame of it is this is where the hard work starts. Thank you for all you have done for me and my KIDS!!!! You helped me more than you will ever know. M-35 going on 15 D-8 S- 3 yrs ex-CL(w)- 30 D over one year I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be. Douglas Adams "Just Be"

Re: Strange feelings sofaraway #906695 01/25/07 08:27 PM
Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 980 Northeast US S S_O_T_S Member
S_O_T_S Member S Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 980 Northeast US	Hi Ian. If I could ask a favor? Could you pop over to my thread, on the third page, you can find my email. I'd like to have a private convo w/ you by email (possibly by phone if need be). And hopefully you can forgive me this, quoting you in bold: I went to college at Arizona State I went to grad school at U of A. Take care, and nice to see the pleasant developments for you here. S_O_T_S aka: Stoic_On_The_Surface I can't quite get there cause my heart's forsaken me - KT Tunstall Take away this ball and chain - Social Distortion M: 10/3/04 - 5/23/07

Re: Strange feelings S_O_T_S #906696 01/25/07 09:02 PM
Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 10,147 Memphis, TN S sofaraway OP Member
OP sofaraway Member S Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 10,147 Memphis, TN	SOTS, sent you an email with my cell number... call me. Ian M- 48 XW- mentally 17 KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28 Married- 17 years Divorce final- 10/16/09

Re: Strange feelings sofaraway #906697 01/25/07 11:43 PM
Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 7,216 Ca. shoeprincess Member
shoeprincess Member Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 7,216 Ca.	Ian you can always go shopping in Phoenix!!! found out about affair 8/06 H moves out Nov/06 D final 8/07 X re marries OW 5/08 _________________________ Courage does not always roar, sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying... " I will try again tomorrow". -- Mary Anne Radmacher

Re: Strange feelings shoeprincess #906698 01/26/07 12:47 AM
Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 6,729 colorado I inspiredjulie Member
inspiredjulie Member I Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 6,729 colorado	that's what I was thinking, shoes. Hit that huge mall in tempe. I bet they sell lots of nice ummm shoes there. I matter. Me 32 xH 33 D7, D5 BOMB 9/27/06 D final 4/3/08

Re: Strange feelings inspiredjulie #906699 01/26/07 12:59 AM
Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 10,147 Memphis, TN S sofaraway OP Member
OP sofaraway Member S Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 10,147 Memphis, TN	Well ladies, I don't know anything about shopping, so unless one of you fine ladies can teach me real quick I am just SOL. I think i'll stick to the sporting events and such. I just know that I will find plenty to do. I found out that the resort that I am staying at has a great gym, massage, and day spa so i will pamper myself a bit with all that as well. Man I sound like a woman. M- 48 XW- mentally 17 KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28 Married- 17 years Divorce final- 10/16/09

Page 5 of 13

1

2

3

4

5

6

7

…

12

13

Moderated by Michele Weiner-Davis

Link Copied to Clipboard

Michele Weiner-Davis Training Corp. 1996-2025. All rights reserved.

Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5