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maybe try and hit a bball game... good movies... that's all I've got.


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Jules, great suggestion... I just looked it up and the Spurs are playing the Suns the night of February 1st. I'm gonna get my boss to expense th egame which will make it twice as good. I am actually a huge Suns fan, I went to college at Arizona State so have been a Suns fan for years. They are the only non New York team that I follow

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Thanks for the suggestion.....

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niiiice... that sounds like a great time. maybe you can catch a college game while you're there, too at your alma mater...


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Hey Ian,

While you're thinking of ways to make that trip a positive thing for you, think about how it may be good for W as well. You want her to feel comfortable having space and time for herself, without ol' Ian hovering and worrying about too much time spent apart. So adapt an attitude that says this brief time apart is good for both of you, and then show that attitude to W with a big smile. OK?

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Ian,

You can drop her off at Disney and tell her she wanted her space. You and I can head out on the town!!

I'm so happy to see you hear on this board. You've worked so hard at it and the shame of it is this is where the hard work starts.

Thank you for all you have done for me and my KIDS!!!! You helped me more than you will ever know.


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Hi Ian.

If I could ask a favor?

Could you pop over to my thread, on the third page, you can find my email.

I'd like to have a private convo w/ you by email (possibly by phone if need be).

And hopefully you can forgive me this, quoting you in bold:

I went to college at Arizona State

I went to grad school at U of A.

Take care, and nice to see the pleasant developments for you here.


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SOTS, sent you an email with my cell number... call me.

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Ian you can always go shopping in Phoenix!!!


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that's what I was thinking, shoes. Hit that huge mall in tempe. I bet they sell lots of nice ummm shoes there.


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Well ladies, I don't know anything about shopping, so unless one of you fine ladies can teach me real quick I am just SOL. I think i'll stick to the sporting events and such. I just know that I will find plenty to do. I found out that the resort that I am staying at has a great gym, massage, and day spa so i will pamper myself a bit with all that as well. Man I sound like a woman.


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