Ok, so maybe some of ya'll can explain this one to me. I went out last night, I coach 5-7 year olds basketball and played a game of raquetball for exercise. When I got home my W was there with my D13, I knew she would be there. I expected her to do the usual and get her stuff together and leave. She didnt, she kind of lingered around for about an hour.
I fealt fairly wierd, I kept busy, doing dishes, taking out the trash, etc.... I wanted, strange as it sounds for her to leave. I believe that I have gotten so used to her leaving right away that I have come to realize that when she stays around it hurts more when she does go. I didn't say anything to her about it, but I am sure she sensed something. Is this odd????
I don't quite know how to get past this feeling, do I interact and work through the awkwardness or do what I did last night and stay busy? It was one of the stranges feelings I have ever had.
