I think there are certain techniques that are useful for different stages. I don't think strong detaching is needed for you guys at this time. Like you said, the 180's and act as ifs, are definite techniques to keep up.
Yeah you're probably right about the detaching Trip. Its a little like I've brainwashed myself into all these things I'm not "allowed" to do and my brain hasn't yet realised we're in a slightly different sitch now and some things are "allowed" again. Thanks for the good luck wishes!
Me 34
H 33
S2
Together 10yrs
Married 6yrs
Bomb 12th Aug 06
