Just wanted to comment on the ILYs. Do you think that sometimes when we are in the height of our marriages that we say it sometimes out of habit and not with the feelings that we think we should be feeling?
I say this because, I think the WAS then feels free not to say because they don't "have" to now. Does that make sense? They say it when they actually feel it at that moment and not just because they know you need or want to hear it? Or do they say it now out of guilt?
