Quote: Maybe you could post a brief intro so that all of us here could know where you have come from and what you have been through.
Here goes, In August I got the good ole ILYBINILWY that runs rampid around here. We tried to live together, but I could not handle it. We decided to try a unique living arangement and we rented 1 apartment that we split time in. So one week I am at the house and W at the apt, next week the W is at the house and I am at the apt. There was a PA on her part w/ a close friend of mine who is no longer a friend and is married himself. I DB'ed like a madman, made my share of mistakes along the way. After Xmas I got very angry and frustrated, I decided to tell her on New Years day that I was done and she could file for her divorce. On January 5th she came to me and told me she wasnt ready to file and that there is value there and she just doesnt know if she can get back to that loving feeling for me again.
We agreed at that point to give it time as long as there is effort on her part as well. We have been out on a couple of dates, they went well. We are taking a weekend away together in February, and we have our anniversary trip to Scotland scheduled for June 22nd through July 1st.
It's going at a very slow and steady pace, she is way more open with me now and we are working very hard on rebuilding our friendship right now and learning to communicate. We don't talk R hardly at all right now. She knows that I love her and I do send her flowers and leave gifts at the apartment on our swap days. She seems ok with that.
I am in the middle of interviewing for a new job, had my second interview today and I believe that I aced it. I took my W to lunch afterwards and we talked about it quite a bit. Had a nice lunch together and then I came back to work. So far a good day in my books... Off to coach basketball tonight and then playing raquetball at the club so lots of GAL work today for me.
