It seems that things went downhill in your sitch...I'm very sorry to hear this. However, a few questions, if you do not mind - What did she specifically say in regards to your finding the note, the book, and the phone calls? Did she admit anything, or simply deny it all?
No, her idea of the future living arrangements is totally unacceptable...much less, horrendous to do. That will last probably, at the most, one month. The impact of that arrangement will do more harm than being separated from each other, as far as the children are concerned.
As far as living that lie, the stress of it will be quite tremendous. Her need to "save face" is stronger than her want to repair the issues in the marriage, which seems so ironic. What has your counselor suggest in her absolute refusal to attend any sessions?
I had to pop in and see how you were doing...missed the great descriptions of your country. Things are fine at my end...although, saturday, someone tried to hack into my computer...the protection I have is excellent.
How are you doing? I meant to email you, but I was really busy. I'll try later...good to see you posting, Luke is in great hands with you and Whatisis...just keep responding with him...please.
