I do agree w/kml, beign under that kind of stress wouldn't make anyone feel any better.
Although I'm wondering if you are still reliving the A or if you are just insecure about her commitment to the M. It's been barely 6mths since I found out about the PA my H had. It has taken me this long and with long hard work I've been able to stop relieving every detail every day I wake up. It does take great will power to stop looking into the "abyss" of the history of the A.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
