Hello all, It has been around two years since my W had an EA. We had sevreal issues at that time and dealt with them all in the wrong way. After both of us decided to work things out and stay together we attended therapy and counseling both together and apart. Things got better and we learned how to communicate better and learned how to handle things. Recently we had new problems, mostly due to my inability to find work which caused severe stress on us and our M. My W gave me an ultimatum and a time period in which to find work or she was leaving, she still loved me but couldnt handle the stress anymore. We worked through that (and recently I did manage to find work) however the issues have caused some old problems of mine to return, mostly insecurity and anxiety over our M and R. She feels that I should be over this by now since her EA was two years ago. I am working on it but am having a hard time dealing with these issues. Any suggestions? How long does it take to get over it and move on? I want to trust her again.
