FOR GOODNESS SAKE. I HAVE FORGIVEN HER. FORGIVENESS IS A GIFT. Just because I have forgiven my wife does not mean that I have to forgive him. They are 2 separate people. She is my wife, the love of my wife and the mother of my children. She used to be my best friend but she does not want to for fill that roll anymore. That is just the way things are.

Why do i bother.


me 41
her 40
kids (3) 19, 16 and 6
married 20 years, together 31 years since childhood

bomb Aug 06, affair started june 06 and still going on