Hi Nick,

I tend to agree completely with Bill (Bworl)...these things also take A LOT of TIME !!! It's something we "impatient LBS" have to learn....PATIENCE.... I believe most of our lessons are in ;

*Patience
*Letting Go (detaching - we are sometimes controlfreaks)
*Finding ourselves !!!! (very important ! Usually we're lost as well !!)
*Opening up to new and fresh possibilities (this does NOT exclude our W/H...but we do need to realize that it will NEVER be the same relationship if it is ever a relationship again !)
*Finding our true friends
*Learning to love unconditionally
*Empathy
*Forgiveness
*Faith

Well, I guess these are just a few of the things I have found that I am learning and practicing in my life now...but believe me it's taken me a lot longer than a few days or even 8 months to learn this and accept it !!!!

I hope you find a way of channeling your anger....crimes of passion do happen you know....please ask God to help you, and to watch over you, and go out and hug a tree !! It really does help !!!!

Love, Cinders xx


Love Cinders xxx

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